Come in from the cold.
Not sure where to begin? You’re not alone.
There’s a seat by the fire. You’re safe here.

Grief isn’t a problem to fix it’s a journey to walk.
You don’t have to have it all figured out. Whether your grief is brand new or woven into your every day, Grandma Farmer offers Christian grief support for widows—gentle, steady, and real. You’re not alone on this path.
Let’s take the next right step together.

The Porchlight Journal
Short, grace-filled blog posts for widows walking through grief. Gentle truths, tender Scripture, and permission to take it one breath at a time.

The Porchlight – YouTube
Short, heart-steadying videos that offer faith, comfort, and real stories from someone who’s been where you are.

Still Held Podcast
Quick, grace-filled episodes with real talk, real faith, and zero pressure to “move on.” Just press play.
Kinship Over Coffee. Care Without a Clipboard.
You don’t need a polished prayer or a plan with five bullet points.
You need someone who knows how to sit quietly when the silence is heavy.
This isn’t about therapy. It’s about kinship.
The kind where someone pours two mugs even if no one’s talking yet.
If you’re craving connection that doesn’t come with a timer or a diagnosis, you’re in the right place.
Stories from the Porch
Grief often shows up in the quiet moments—rocking chairs, morning coffee, or a song that stops you in your tracks.
These stories aren’t polished. They’re just real. Shared from one widow’s porch to another’s—because healing often begins with the words “me too.”

The Porch Is Still Here
When you don’t know where to go with your grief, come here.

I Still Set His Mug Out Some Mornings
The habits of love linger long after loss.
You’re not broken. You’re becoming.
This isn’t the end of your story. It’s the place where hope takes root. And when you’re ready, I’ll be right here—offering devotions, stories, gentle support, and a steady voice reminding you that you’re not alone.
The porch light stays on. Come as you are.